Ukwabelana ngesondo nomntu ongamaziyo okanye iqabane elitsha kunento entle. Yongeza kumava, kwanengcamango yokwenqatshelwe kwabaninzi iyavuselela, ibala amandla kunye nokucinga kweqabane. Ukwabelana ngesondo kwibhari kuphumla kancinci kwaye akuthandeki njengasebhedini. Ukwabelana ngesondo ezimpundu kunye nokuphululwa kwesi sibini kufanelwe yindumiso nokhuthazo.
Ngokufanelekileyo ukugweba ngendlela iesile lakhe elithathe ngayo ilungu lesithandwa sakhe, kukhuselekile ukugqiba ukuba i-anal ayiyonto entsha kuye, ngoko akumangalisi ukuba ambethe ngesibindi ngaphandle kokucotha.